Why Should You Try & Deny Your Orgasm?
-Holding onto the orgasmic energy by not releasing and conserving that fire is a way to fuel your creative pursuits. Think of it as fire in the belly; the transmutation meditation and impetus that makes the world go round. Your very DNA sings with the life force you wish to spill. Of course this is completely healthy and natural but holding off like saving money in the bank is a sure way to increase your stamina & flex your self-control. You gain a newfound respect of the pleasures of the flesh and will find it isn’t the end-all-be-all but a gateway into sublime connection within yourself.
-Sacrificing cum temporally for your Mistress or to expel in a ritualized manner under her guided masturbation techniques is a way to strengthen the bond.
-Even though the object of tantra isn’t the orgasm itself, that is one of the blissful side effects when working and training to attain that inner enlightenment and cosmic connection. And longer term extended denial is one surefire way to tap into that same sense of reverence than transcends the physical realm into the synergistic sexual energy of the mind, spirit and body combined into a higher celestial consciousness.
-Abstaining can give one a real sense of accomplishment and make you feel you have truly earned your orgasmic outcome.
-It reignites your senses and dusts of the proverbial cobwebs from the everyday routine. Your self-discovery can also lead to new avenues and fun feitshes you never would have experienced had you not had the opportunity to improvise while you waited to cum, For example, I had a pet find that tickling became much more energetically arousing and now adds feather play to his erotic explorations as a fave pastime.
So have you ever used tantric orgasm denial techniques? If you are serious about really pleasing your mistress consider giving it a try. Long term orgasm denial is a challenge but that makes the payoff that much more sweet
Two things come to mind with this post–tantric sex magic, and athletes. The tantric part is probably self-explanatory, as the principles involve the absorption of sexual energy rather than the expelling of it. Athletes come into the picture because you mentioned “fire in the belly”, and it made me think of what may be an old wife’s tale that abstaining from sex before competition heightens athletic acuity.
Hello Sexy! Yes both come to mind for sure.
Sometimes there are pearls of wisdom laced in old wives’ tales. The culprit causing lethargy from seed spillage is from the hormones triggered and secreted in the brain called prolactin during and after orgasm. However I was referring more to the spiritual fire in the belly that makes men shake their tail feathers when not carousing between the sheets.
There are many different ways to receive sexual energy. The act of sex itself is but one pathway & connecting to the pulse of life and the orgasmic energy of Kundalini awakening and universal consciousness.
There is that glorious give and take to tantric in that you gain what you give in a different form and yet it feels so familiar and in a cyclical way it is in part regifted onto us from the polarized other as well as from ourselves through them.
It is like magic the way the sum becomes greater than its separate parts. Luminous and restorative, you can gain the energy from within and without. The doorway to divinity can led to another person but ultimately you must go through yourself as the vessel to be open and filled.
Mistress Fiona for all the reasons I would try and deny myself for you. Your are so smart and make it seem like such a hot idea that even if I wasn’t open to chastity and denial you would make me change my mind. Please may I be your submissive?
I can never have too many locked and loaded pets 😉