Myth #2 Being a mistress in “real life/live action” is harder and more authentic than being an auditory authoritarian/long distance mistress
I have dabbled in both and each have their own unique set of challenges and perks. One thing is for sure however, long-distance domination is by far more dependent on a strong bond and understanding of the internal inner-workings underpinning a submissive’s desire to be ruled. One cannot fall back on all the props and visuals that would be at our disposal in the flesh. A mistress must create the entire scene and make it spark with the same life and energy as they would in person but multiplied tenfold . It’s that much more essential that the dom and sub connect in a real soul-deep level and diligently communicate in a finely tuned matter. This can take a level of patience & effort to maintain that direct line to each other’s mind but is well worth the satisfaction. There are many forms of domination and domming by phone is as relevant and fulfilling as any other.
Myth #3 Mistresses hate men.
This is just plain false. I for one immensely enjoy men of all varieties. Why would we as mistresses spend so much time playing with men if we didn’t enjoy their company? While we do have couples and female submissives as well, for the most part our counterpart subbies are predominately male. It reminds me of how feminism has at times taken on a negative connotation in our lexicon. If anything it’s fair to say mistresses expect a lot from their men pups simply because they see their true potential. In the bedroom our tastes just tend to veer toward the prevailing preference of gynarchical tendencies. 😉
Have any other pressing questions or curious about other mistress myths? Feel free to ask away Fiona@enchantrixempire.com
Well, Mistresses are first and foremost human beings with layers and different sides to them. They feel one way some days and other ways on different days just like we all do. The way various medias present mistresses is usually badly written. It’s a relationship of trust and mutual respect whose goals are to create something together.
Exactly darling! Well said xoxoxo
Ms Fiona ~ I love these two myths. I think the best myth buster is when a subbie calls and says they have been with live action mistress but feel more connected to a phone mistress. And you are right, it is because we can’t rely on props. I actually love men! Some I love as pets, some I love to fuck and some I love to fuck with – lol. Thank you again for these posts!!!
Some you love to fuck and some you love to fuck with lol LOVE it and soo darn true.
Great blog post, Ms. Fiona! I agree that phone or online Mistresses must work much harder to set the stage and keep the play ball rolling, all just using our imaginations and our words! It’s a true talent, indeed! And I agree, I love men! They are my very favorite toys!
Thanks sexy! And you’re right the world would be so dull without boy toys to commandeer 😉
I love this phone stuff…, is it a “phoney relationship”? ahar har
Ok, just for clarity’s sake, at the end you said… “In the bedroom our tastes just tend to veer toward the prevailing preference of gynarchical tendencies.” Do you mean by that : our society has a preference for gynarchy? I missed that memo, happy to hear it, but wha?!
My whole goofy response can be put up to the fact that something is wrong with the phone connection so that for a whole week I cannot get through to LDW ; I’m a little nutty and deprived.
LOL love it!
What I meant by “our (the majority of femdom Mistresses in my experience/that I know) tastes just tend to veer toward the prevailing preference of gynarchical tendencies.” -was that femdoms relish ruling men sexually. 😉