Femdom Favorites

As a Femdom by phone, I often have newbie pets asking me the same questions. One that recently has been popping up is, “What characteristics do you like in a submissive pet?” So, I compiled a list of attributes that I appreciate in my subbies.  I also aspire to hone these qualities in myself as well. They all add up to aid in making life in general a little easier and more lively. These go beyond the bare basics that are expected from every pet such as respect, obedience and effort and go deeper into what some Femdom Faves are. Find out what a good submissive offers.

 Femdom’s Favorite #1 Sense of Humor

I love it when I’m around playful people who enjoy laughing at whatever life throws at them. Rolling with the punches (or in this case, spanks and whips) is always important. I’ll never forget the time my tranquility candle set off my fire alarm while I was dominating a pet. We both were laughing hysterically. Afterwards, we got right back into the scene so it wasn’t in any way a mood-killer. In fact, I think it was a nice combination of both emotional release and then physical and I know my pet and I will never forget that session!

Femdom Favorites # 2 Enthusiasm

I love when my subbies are full of energy and ready to play. It has its own form of energy and power exchange just as the actual act of domination does. This kind of excitement is contagious and it is amplified by that of others. It makes femdoming so much fun to know my pets are just as psyched to get into a scene as I am. I cannot tell you how often I have a smile on my face before, after and during a great session. It’s so satisfying and I love knowing my subbies are left hungry for more.

Femdom Favorites # 3 Openness

It can be a daunting prospect to delve into your deepest desires. Being able to articulate what you are interested in though is so helpful. Sometimes even auditory feedback as simple as a moan or whimper can let your Femdom know how you are doing during playtime. So, there is no need to be shy, I love hearing all those noises and confesses as to what makes you putty in my hands.The art of domination by phone sex depends on open communication to fill-in-the-blanks naturally present in the dynamics of distance femdoming. In fact, when the lines of communication are completely open, distance-dominating can actually be the most intimate of all BDSM connections. It creates energy that can span across countless miles and time-zones.

I also love it when my pets are open to telling me about things outside of their kink. Every day little things they like to share or mutual hobbies, fave shows etc. are fun to talk about sometimes and can help build an even stronger bond.

Femdom Favorites # 4 Organization

Organized subbies are so fun to play with. I love when they have a well-maintained inventory of toys, outfits and goodies to utilize during a session. In fact, one pet shared with me the most organized closet of bras and panties I’ve ever seen. I find it so inspirational that I’m redoing my own collection closet.

Femdom Favorites #5 Kinky Creativity/Ingenuity

Who doesn’t love it when a subbie is into figuring out how to get what they want? I had one industrious subbie crave the ideal of fucking himself with his own cock. After many attempts with different kinds of kits and materials, he came up with a casting of his cock and made it into the dildo of his dreams. Now that’s a sedulous subbie! I love all the effort that went into that erotic experience.

I am so grateful for all my wonderful subbie pets who do such an amazing job being the very best kinskters they can be. Myself, and many Femdoms care about their submissives immensely.

Bonus Attribute: Thoughtfulness

I also love thoughtfulness since Femdoms need aftercare too sometimes. It’s amazing how many of my subbies have been so giving of positive feedback and sharing their feelings. <3 It’s so appreciated.

Something to Ponder: What do you crave in a Mistress?