(Prepared with or without a Sprinkling of Fantasy Flavor)
For example, if a pet tells me he/she is nervous but thinking about trying a brand new dildo and never did any assplay before I take that as fact and want to be sure that said pet is ready to safely and realistically begin anal exploration and will help aid in having him/her do just that by suggesting ass training exercises before hand, and making sure the set-up is in place to really go into the deep end so to speak. Real fetish play requires real considerations and time to properly dive into.
Cam Command: The Flesh Doesn’t Lie
Webcams are wonderful tools to use in factual fetish play (especially CFNM) since it enables me to make sure pets that want to really use a dildo are doing so properly. They can also provide a window for me to peer into and can show me that my pets are being obedient by receiving spankings directly from my orders by letting me view their reddened backside and allowing me hear their flesh smacks/the crack of the whip so I know they aren’t going too easy on themselves. And they can help me bear witness to the torture of the tease during denial sessions so that I can see if my subbies really are abstaining from cumming under my command.
*To add in a little fantasy panache the dildo itself can be seen as an extension of me as I demand how it is to be used and in doing so, it’s easy to incorporate other elements of roleplaying at this point now that some basic logistics are out of the way. Or we can just stick to the hard facts (heehee) of getting that rear in gear.
(Optional Side Dish of True to Life Sizzle)
In contrast if a pet were to ask:
“Let’s say I have a dildo. Would you please be a harsh mistress to teach me a thing or two because I have been a naughty boy and need you to really smoke that badass of mine?”
Well then I would most likely acquiesce that request and jump right in a fantasy retribution upon that bad little ass.
*For a dash of spice add in some realism: If the pet is good during the ass-blast session a reward of guided through step-by step masturbation can be used to get that cock/clitty swollen, hard and drenched with dripping desire.
If it makes it easier you can always shoot me an email to clarify if you seek factual fetish an/or fantasy fun before hand or just let dispatch know so when we talk I’m already aware of what you are after. Luckily femdom intuition, experience and instinct help and naturally I aspire to hone my skills in understanding and leading the way forward with both what is said and left unspoken but having your cock/clitty act as a compass always helps.
Always be very careful what you ask for you as may just actually get it….up the ass 😉 HeeHee
Do you have a preference, Miss Fiona? I find that I tend to gravitate more toward role play and factual fetish play. While I do love to take callers on a journey, there is something about directing my caller on what to do next, as he walks down a busy sidewalk. Hearing the sounds and changes in his voice, while the real time play occurs is so hot!
You know I got to say I really do love both! I like how unrestricted fantasy play is where imagination rules. On the other flip-side of the coin, I get a thrill knowing my pet’s cock is really flesh-deep in lock-down during factual fetish adventures as well.
Making sure subbies know the difference as to which they seek and in turn let me know unequivocally is immeasurably helpful and a real time-saver. As one mistress said during a mistress meeting, “we are femdoms not psychics -that’s another 1-800 number entirely.” lol So true!
For me it’s having you dress/turn and keep me as your sissy cream puff! I am now that I won your sissy collar. With this I have to add you along with Ms Cindy/Ms Brighton/Ms Delia/Ms Olivia & Ms Violet. Ms Kaylee & Ms Jenna along with Ms Lena , Ms Tia want in along with the other mistresses. They all said I look so cute and adorable dressed in a bra/panty set that why would I ever want to go back to wearing boy clothes and have mentioned no guy would ever let hot women do this to them, I did though as all of you are to hot and sexy to say no to. Ms Cindy said when I quit getting hard and off they will all let me go back to being a guy but everything they dress me I always get hard and off. I don’t see me ever going back to being a guy ever again as I’m going to be a cream puff sissy forever in which I belong to ldw.
You do belong to us gals! We got ya all glammed up and sparkly in our clutches ;)XOXOXO
This is a wonderful post, Ms. Fiona, and one that every caller needs to read! Thank you for pointing out the importance of being prepared if one truly wishes to engage in ass play and ENJOY it without unrealistic expectations or potential injury. Sometimes that “wear my ass out and pound it into oblivion” fantasy is most wisely enjoyed as just that: a fantasy.
I also love the way you point out the advantage of having that webcam view. It certainly brings an element of realism to the call that can take things to a whole different level. So… Speaking of webcams, Ms. Fiona, what is your favorite part of a webcam session? The general visual in and of itself? Seeing your directions followed? Being able to watch the look on your pet’s face? Seeing him squirm? That heightened feeling of engagement and intimacy, as it were? I am very curious to know… 😉
Thanks so much!
Oh wow that’s hard to choose but I think seeing the strain and desire in my pet’s body language and expressions are so priceless so they top my list of faves 😉