The Write Stuff
So sissification is what you seek but don’t know where to start? First things first. Your mind is all akimbo bubbling over with visions of stilettoes, satin panties and silk hosiery dancing through your head. Where to start? Well obviously we mistresses at LDW are here to help you sort out all your femfabulous ideas and questions. To help the process along & document your journey the answer, my little lovelies, is simple:
DIARY Stands For Darling I’ll Always Remember You
The Power of the written word is amplified to the max when used to give voice to your innermost wishes, rhythm to your stream of consciousness, and distinction to your deepest desires. You can create a record of dreams, goals, & mantras. It’s an easy way to keep track of your progress and mistress-led sissy assignments as well as a way to organize advice, inspiring quotes and notes from friends and loved ones. There are many rites of passages, and journaling is a wonderful way to encapsulate your many “firsts”, from first tube of lipstick to first pair of panties.
Actual pen to the paper adds an element of tangibility that is rare and meaningful in our disposable instant messaging/texting world. With a simple notebook you can pontificate and expand upon all matter of feelings and evolving emotions. Think of it as a way to connect to your girly side and sacred femininity. Social media is a wonderful resource but don’t forget the importance of that inner connection, the one you have with yourself. You can even think of it as conversing with your future self as you look back and reflect on all your progress within the pages.
Decorate with Oddles of doddles, inspiration boards, glittery gel pens, movie reviews, websites, fashion forecasts, clippings from magazines, photographs etc. The possibilities are positively endless.
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I do seek sissification from you. For me it started at 16 when girl on bus sat next to me and put blush/lipstick/perfume on me:( I didn’t see it coming but was totally embarrassed as I smelled like perfume with blush/lipstick on. I tried to take it off but she got mad and I was by window and couldn’t get away. I got off bus made it home thinking I was only one but what I didn’t realize I was in kitchen underneath mistle tie and my step mom who was 32 and hot put her arms around me and kissed me. She planted two lipstick kisses on each cheek. She noticed I had blush on smelled like perfume and had lipstick on my lips. I explained that girl on bus did this to me and she giggled saying I look cute and adorable. She then sat on my lap and kissed me again and again. I felt weak and helpless. She did if I did what she wanted she wouldn’t tell any one. When alone I snuck into her room and sprayed my self with her perfume and put on her lipstick. In new house she had dresses in attic and I tried it on and it fit me. It was that moment on bus that I realized I was sissy in letting her put makeup me and not protesting as well as my step mom having way with kissing me:(
At 28 living with room mate he had girl friend move in with him and they were out of town. I had to do laundry but both machines were full. As I left I noticed a bra in basket and I tried it on. It was that moment everything changed forever. I
Became hooked in crossdressing/putting on makeup/lipstick/perfume. I now have large collection of bras/panties/dresses/yoga pants/sweaters/heels/boots. It’s to addicting to stop and purge. It’s only way I get hard and off. If love to get caught wearing gfs clothes for real but I’m single. If you caught me wearing your lingerie/clothes/makeup what would you do?
I’d help you buy some of your very own -I’m a bit possessive of my lingerie/clothes/makeup so you might be in for a spanking but I’d be flattered you liked my taste. 😛
I’d be very nervous and scared going shopping with you.:( I’d feel out of place going to Victoria’s Secret as I’m sure you would put blush/perfume/lipstick/lotion on me then have me try on bras/panties/slip:( then if we went shopping for dresses you would have me try them on:( what will everyone think?:(
Well you’d be lucky to find out that’s for sure since I love shopping and would be sure to find the best items for you!
Ms. Fiona, suggesting that budding sissies keep a journal is such a wonderful idea. Keeping track of everything from random feminine musings to questions for Mistress to a grand sissy bucket list and more, a diary/journal holds onto those thoughts, ideas, concerns, goals, and so on, upon which a sissy would likely want to reflect, revisit, and revise as time passes. It’s the perfect format for a long-term sissy story, as it tells the tale of who a sissy was in the past, who she is now, and who she longs to become in the future. Thank you so much for this suggestion. 🙂
Thank you so much Empress EmmaJane. I love finding old journals from past times -it’s like finding a window into the past or a mini time capsule. 🙂
Oh! Diaries, journals, sketch pads, scrapbooks, and the like are wonderful reminders of the past. If you really take your time with them, they can give you such great insight by reminding you of who you were at different stages and places in your life, things and people who shaped and affected you, and how you have become the person you are today. You know, Ms. Fiona, your suggestion can be applicable for many of our callers! Even if they only begin today, sissies, CDs, TG/TS, cucks, chronic wankers, and more can benefit from charting their own unique journey.
I need to have diary too about feminization/dresses/makeup/lipsticks/perfumes/I’ve been dressing for 16 years and women’s clothes/lingerie is so much better then wearing guy clothes. Not to change subject. I was at wine tasting with 2 girls I play tennis with and they were talking about nails and one girl told me to pretend to pay attention to conversation. I did. What’s your take on this Ms Fiona?
Hmmm….did she think perhaps it would bore you?
Maybe but I payed attention! I didn’t mind.
Well of course! I don’t blame you nail art is so fun 😉