BDSM Munch-Brunch Leaves Lots of Food for Thought for this Mistress Munch
Hello pets! I’m sure many of you know what the BDSM term Mistress “munch” is right? Well just in case you don’t, I’ll give you a little synopsis to chew on. It’s basically a mistress & masochist meet-and-greet in a casual setting to discuss kink. These tend to be platonic meet-ups at nearby watering holes and greasy spoons. People get a feel for each other and discuss what might be explored in depth during potential sessions but aren’t actually the D/S scenes themselves. I had never before been to one and was curious as to what the more rural locals would be like.
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Now, I have done a little mistress-ing in the flesh during my stint as a mistress apprentice in a DC femdom dungeon and I figured this wouldn’t be all that different Well, let’s just say my hunch about this munch missed the mark. This brunch bunch weren’t the urban hipsters, moonlighting as sadists to pay off student loans whose day jobs were aspiration on Capitol Hill. No, on the contrary this crowd was more….. over the hill. They were clearly just looking to meet up with hotties with no intention of taking the scene seriously.
BDSM Brunch
First thing that should have tipped me off that this wasn’t quite the scene I was use to was that it look place at Ruby Tuesdays. Before I worried I wasn’t going to connect to my fellow D/S players on account of me doing the majority of my domination these days on the phone in long distant sessions. And even Most of my lifestyle subbies have recently been way more vanilla than by my callers’ and my DC pets’ standards. What was a femdom to do? Connecting to the kinksters in close proximity seemed like a good place to start.
DOA/Poser Dud
Now I had heard the terms swarming and chopped liver before in reference to two extreme ways these little soirees can go but I still was ill prepared for what awaited me. Swarming is when you get inundated with attention and feel a bit like cum-chum. When people start circling you like over eager sharks flocking to the scent of fresh blood in the water or conversely, chopped liver. “Chopped liver” is when the general consensus is the newbie to the group is DOA or a poser dud.
Distant Domme vs. In the Flesh
While the sub/dom long-distance dynamic in the professional arena is just as strong, & substantive as “real time play” it’s still a different erotic exercise. You are basically working a whole other set of Mistress muscles. Had I gotten rusty? Out of touch? Would they view me as an outsider, an interloper or bland brand of blasé BDSM banality. Especially since I was technically a paid professional? I doubted so since it’s something I love and that has become as much a part of me as my sly smirk. Femdoming has changed my views of relationships, men, assertiveness & personal empowerment. However, I still couldn’t help but wonder and feel a bit of nagging apprehension. Did I bite off more BDSM than I could swallow? Luckily, these worries were completely unfounded.
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So true!
So now I’m dying to know what happened at your munch! I live in a small-ish city myself and compared even to Charlotte NC, where I spent a few years, this place is so much different! I’ve managed to find a few kinky playmates here and I’m dying to hear about your experiences.
Thanks for reading sexy! I am still finding my way around the new scene here as well. xoxox
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